5 things to NOT say when someone gets engaged

April 3, 2023 • 3 min read

Has one of your loved ones recently announced their engagement? When sharing your engagement, you want friends and family to respond supportively and lovingly. It is a significant moment in one’s life, meaning you want to help them celebrate and be excited. This makes it essential you respond respectfully.

Recently, we listed five things you should say when someone announces their engagement. Now, it is time to note five things you shouldn’t say when someone gets engaged.

With a specialisation in diamond engagement rings, couples shared with us some interesting comments and responses heard once they announce the engagement. Let’s just say they aren’t what you want to hear in your newly engaged love bubble!

Wondering what comments or reactions to avoid? Here are five things you shouldn’t say or do when a couple announces their engagement.

 

Don’t ask about the price of the ring

One of the biggest things you should avoid is asking the ring price. Firstly, someone else’s finances shouldn’t be any of your business. Everyone has a different budget; therefore, it is best to avoid this topic as it can be touchy and insensitive.

Secondly, the beholder of the ring may not be aware of the total price and that may be how the proposer wants to keep it. Don’t take away from the magic of the engagement. Let them focus on their new beautiful ring and not how much it costs!

Thirdly, it isn’t about the price of the ring. How much the ring costs shouldn’t take away from the moment’s beauty. Nor should it make a difference if they adore the ring as is!

Don’t shame the chosen ring

Another thing you shouldn’t ever say to someone who recently got engaged is that you don’t like the ring. Everyone has a different style and fashion taste; the same goes for jewellery, especially engagement rings. With a vast range of diamond engagement rings on the market, all different in looks, there will be a good chance that you’re not going to like every ring you see.

But even if you don’t like it, you should stray away from letting them know. You should also avoid asking if it is what they wanted. It may very well be precisely what they wanted, but even then, don’t put any doubt in their mind. Celebrate the occasion for what it is, an exciting time in their relationship!

Don’t ask if you’re invited to the wedding

One thing you should never ask an engaged couple is if you’re invited to the wedding. Weddings can be a delicate subject. While the couple may like to invite everyone in their life, sometimes it is not possible to do so. They may want to keep it small and intimate with their closest loved ones.

You shouldn’t intrude and ask if you’ll get an invite. It can be awkward for both you and the happy couple-to-be as you may not be getting invited. You should only ask for surface-level details about the wedding if you get a direct invite or if the couple mentions your attendance.

Don’t ask if they are really ready to get married

When your loved one gets engaged, they want your support – not doubt! The last thing they need is someone to question if they are ready to get married.

Asking whether they are ready can be disrespectful and even condescending. In fact, this is offensive and may make it sound like you are not happy for the couple. Remember, if you have nothing nice to say – don’t say it at all.

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Now, make sure you help your loved ones celebrate and avoid saying any of the above!

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